Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Love or Loved?

Valentine's day a message to my daughter was sarcastically reverted back, I was taken aback, called her to find out whats bothering her, though that was not possible but her reply with a query was, love can only be expressed on valentine's day rather any day you express your love for someone should be valentine's day, it did trigger my thought process, at the back of my head it made me wonder is it important to love or be loved?
Life is not always pack of goody things, one comes across ups and downs, at times you yearn for person's love and at other moment their being with you makes you uncomfortable. what is more important than loving someone is being loved, love is unconditional and is not made possible, it silently enters your life and overcomes you, there is hardly any time left when you realise it has happened. loving is always easier than being loved.
A quote from a movie sounded like this that value of things is known before you possess them and of humans after you loose....
Man is complex animal beside being social, our brain chemistry is so intricate that its self confusing at time, we tend to have tears in our eyes when overjoyed and inversely smile without reason when deep in sorrow. Its difficult to understand love or being loved in words its a formula which has its own meaning and implications, its how it happens in persons life.
Aptly sung by a sufi singer 'Bulleshah' that break any belief in this religious world but don't break someone's heart as it's abode of the god itself.

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